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How To Get The House You Want: A Helpful Guide

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Many of us want to buy a property, but it seems like an emotional roller coaster ride with serious money at stake and fierce competition. How can you give yourself the best chance of getting the house you want?

You need to be organised and have a plan you can stick to!

But what else can you do to get an edge? Here are some suggestions on how to clinch the deal on the house you want.

How do you get the property you want?

Getting the keys to your dream home doesn’t need to be an exhausting experience. As long as you prepare well and understand the process, you can navigate each step with minimum hassle. Really, buying a home is about understanding the stages involved, from how deposits and mortgage amounts work to checking your credit score and finding a solicitor.

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With that in mind, here are the key considerations for buying a home so you can get the property you want.

But first … are first-time buyers attractive?

If it’s your first buying a home, you might be wondering if being up against previous buyers could leave you at a disadvantage. Vendors (that’s the seller) are marketing their home to anyone, first-timer buyer or not.

However, you might be seen as more favourable if you are buying your first home because first-time buyers are chain-free homebuyers (i.e. they don’t rely on selling their house to move into a new home).

For vendors, it’s ultimately about receiving the right offer from a buyer with intent to complete the deal. That’s the crux of it. Sure, people who have previously bought may have a better understanding of the process, but that’s what this guide is for – to help you clinch the deal on the house of your dreams.

How to get the house you want

Have your finances and solicitor on standby

To get the house you want, you need to be seen as a reliable buyer, so it’s a good idea to have everything in order before you start your search. That includes knowing how much deposit you need for a house.

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Many lenders offer 95% mortgages, meaning you only pay 5% of the home’s value from your own pocket. Just remember that the higher your deposit the lower your mortgage. Ideally, you want to keep borrowing down if possible. 

There are also many documents required to buy a house, so it helps to get prepared! Plus, you should have an idea of which solicitor you’d like to use (more on that shortly).

Check your credit score

One of the first things is to check your credit score as early as possible. Get it into the best shape possible to find a good mortgage deal.

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Have a mortgage agreement in principle

Having a mortgage offer (or a decision in principle) at the start marks you out as serious, and estate agents prefer buyers with their finances in order.

So, if you’re a first-time buyer with no chain, and you show you have already applied for a mortgage and have a deposit ready, you’re more attractive to a seller. In some cases, this is more desirable than a higher offer.

If selling your home, show you are serious by having your property on the market and a mortgage ready. Even better, show you have already accepted an offer on your property – or sold it!

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Find a solicitor

Engaging your solicitor early on also shows you are serious about buying. This way, when you find the house you want, they can just focus on the conveyancing.

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Dealing with estate agents

Your paperwork is in order, the solicitor is on standby, and you have a mortgage lined up, now’s the time to decide your strategy. Knowing what you want before you start talking to estate agents keeps you focused and can improve your chances of success when buying a home.

Put yourself in a stronger position

Establish what you are prepared to pay. Based on your budget, narrow down preferred areas, house prices and properties on the internet. Research the surrounding area with a property report too, it has as much impact on how much you’ll enjoy living somewhere.

Getting on an estate agent’s good side

If you are determined to get the house you want, it pays to be in an estate agent’s good books. This can take some effort but is worth it. To make sure you are one of the first people they call with new properties:

  • Know what you want
  • Know where you want to look
  • Know how much you’re prepared to pay

Without a potential buyer, there is no deal. But, remember that estate agents act for the sellers and don’t need to keep you happy, so make sure you know what you want.

Meet them face-to-face

If you can it’s worth visiting all the estate agents in the area you’re looking to buy and registering with each of them. Be polite – you need their help, but you are not paying their fees. That house you want could come from any one of them.

Visiting also helps to get an idea of how they operate, and you can start to build a relationship with them. It lets the agents put a face to a name, which may get you that golden tip-off to help you get the house you want.

Take their calls and answer their emails, and go and see properties they think fit your brief. Communicate regularly, and you’ll be top of their list when something new comes in.

Follow up on viewings

Estate agents are busy people, so you need to help them help you. Try to always follow up viewings with an email:

  • Confirm your mortgage position
  • Repeat your requirements
  • Give feedback on the property you’ve just seen with them – the seller is bound to ask
  • If the property’s not for you, let the agent know

By following up, you are helping the agent – they’ll appreciate it. Agents won’t phone 50 people if they can call five to sell a new instruction. Try to stand out and be one of those five!

Ask plenty of questions

Don’t be afraid to ask lots of questions when viewing a house. Asking now can save nasty surprises and by law, estate agents must be truthful. Here are some things you may want to ask them:

  • How long has the property been for sale?
  • Does the property need any work?
  • What will be included in the sale?
  • How long have the sellers lived there?
  • Why are they moving?
  • Are they in a chain?

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How much should I offer on a house?

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Compare the agent’s answers to your own research to make a well-informed decision. Though agents can’t legally tell you the level of other offers, they should indicate if they are close to the asking price, and this can help your plan.

It’s also good for home buyers to understand the local market. If supply is tight and the property looks good, the seller may have the upper hand. Try to make your offer as attractive as your budget allows.

But, stick to your budget and don’t be pressured into offering more than you can afford.

The best offer doesn’t always mean the largest – you’ll hopefully know the seller’s motivations from your research, and can try to match your offer to them.

If there isn’t much demand for the property, or the seller needs a quick sale, don’t be afraid to start with a lower offer. Try not to go so low that they don’t come back to you, though!

An asking price can just be the owner or agent’s wishful thinking, so make an offer if your information and gut says to. After all, a house is worth what a buyer and seller agree on, so remember your game plan and stick to it!

Make your offer stand out

Estate agents are obliged to treat all buyers fairly and pass on all offers to the seller. This includes right up to when contracts exchange, so don’t be put off if you are told the house you want is under offer.

If you want to get your offer accepted you may need to win the heart as well as the mind of the seller, especially if there is competition for the property. So try to find out why they are selling. Taking time to understand their situation can help you stand out from the crowd.

Let them know you love their property and hope they will accept your offer and when they do, ask it to be taken off the market. This can reduce the risk of you being gazumped. Sellers don’t have to do this, but if you’ve built rapport, they may well agree.

If you’re really confident about the property purchase, you could even offer a small deposit as a goodwill gesture. This will give both sides comfort the sale is not going to fall through and make progress to exchange less stressful.

Putting some extra effort in at this stage can secure the home you want and avoid you getting sucked into a bidding war, such as a contract race or sealed bid scenario.

Stay in touch through the conveyancing phase

If you’re lucky enough to have an offer accepted on the house you want, don’t take your foot off the gas! Yes, it is now mainly down to solicitors and lenders to do their thing but keep in the loop to help move things along.

Ensure you stay in touch with the seller and agent, they will appreciate you keeping them up to date from your end and hopefully will do the same for you. Good communications may just give everyone that extra nudge over the finishing line!

How long does buying a house take?

How long is a piece of string? Unfortunately, there’s no one-size-fits-all time period for buying a house. There are many moving parts, and it depends on the efficiency of everyone involved, from you to the seller to the agent to the solicitors.

If you’re looking for an average, it’s safe to assume that it’ll take around three months (or 12ish weeks) to buy a home, and that doesn’t include actually moving in. It might be a little quicker but can also be longer. That’s why it’s so important to have all your ducks in a row and keep on top of the process.

Be sure of your facts before you put in an offer

Before making an offer, spend some time studying the property and area, because knowing key information about somewhere you want to call home is important.

Having a clearer picture of the property and seller can also tailor your offer and get you a better deal in the process. Estate agents will respect this effort (as it can save them huge amounts of time) and will work with you to help get the house you want.

A property report helps form a rounded opinion on a property you may be considering. It can help you to decide if the property is for you, and also help determine the best offer you can make.

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Last Updated: November 22nd, 2023

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